Irreverent Femme
Niche Nurturing Sadist & Dominatrix for the Kink-Curious
Why I love this work and my specific style
​Welcome to My World
From an early age, I was drawn to the so-called “taboo.” While others told Me it was too dark, too much, or not normal, I knew better—I was simply wired for something deeper. Today, I live fully in that truth as a professional Dominatrix and certified Sex & Intimacy Coach. I've cultivated long-term submissive relationships with those who have earned My trust by showing up with consistency, emotional maturity, and a hunger for self-understanding.
Whether you’re new to BDSM or seeking something more meaningful than performative kink, know this: I do not accept fast-tracked submission or fantasy-driven entitlement. I don’t offer experiences to men who cannot communicate with clarity, presence, and respect. Emotional attunement, psychological connection, and mutual trust are the foundations of every interaction in My world.
If you’re a man who wants access to My time, attention, or dominance, expect to begin by learning how to connect and communicate in ways that are genuinely worthy of women receiving. I’m not here to perform your fantasy—I’m here to witness your unraveling and help you understand your desires without shame, bypassing, or bravado.
I work with men who are ready to grow, Femmes who want to step into their own Domme power, and curious beginners ready to explore dominance, submission, kink, and fetish play in ways that are emotionally grounded and erotically potent. You may be drawn by the promise of sensual power exchange, sadistic mind games, gender play, or the comfort of a strict but nurturing Mommy Domme. You’ll stay because you’ve never felt more seen—or more responsible for the way you show up.
If you're seeking a Dominatrix who will strip your ego before your clothes, you're in the right place. I have far more interesting ways to make you feel naked.
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Types of play I enjoy
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BDSM for the Curious or Newbie
New to kink? You're exactly where you belong.
Seeking a Dominatrix for the first time can feel overwhelming. There are so many myths and stereotypes about what BDSM should look like—but in truth, every D/s relationship is as unique as the people in it. I love working with individuals and couples who are curious, new, or unsure where to start. Together, we’ll explore your fantasies and desires with care, curiosity, and no shame. I’ll guide you gently into the world of power exchange, sensation play, and submission at a pace that feels right for you.
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Mommy Domme
Seductive nurture, strict affection, and emotional surrender.
With My background in sex and intimacy coaching, I bring deep emotional attunement to the Mommy Domme dynamic. Many submissives come to Me longing to feel safe enough to fully let go—to be seen, held, and cared for while they explore deeper layers of surrender. My favorite expression of this role is as a seductive Mommy with a sadistic streak. I’ll cradle you in My affection and delight in slowly torturing you with the things I know you secretly crave. This is tender, emotional BDSM with a deliciously twisted edge.
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Forced Bi for Men
Obedient little slut—tell Me everything.
I love directing your filthy fantasies—especially when it involves pushing you into experiences you’re both ashamed of and aching for. Forced bi fantasy is something I’ve explored for years with trusted submissives, and I offer guidance through personalized text, audio, and phone sessions. I want the details. I want your moans. And I want to orchestrate it all. Rates vary based on message type and session duration.
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Financial Domination
Spoil Me. Worship Me. Sustain Me.
I take great joy in ethical financial domination rooted in service, intention, and devotion. Gifts that make Me smile, dinners you pay for, luxuries that improve My day—these aren’t just offerings, they’re acts of submission. I enjoy being spoiled by submissives who take pride in elevating My lifestyle. And yes, I also care that your devotion is sustainable—this is a dynamic, not a drain. Make Me feel adored, and you’ll know the pleasure of My attention.
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Couples Kink Coaching
Your kink connection, guided and ignited.
Want to explore kink with your partner but unsure where to start—or just want more confidence and inspiration? I love helping couples deepen their erotic connection through kink. From introducing BDSM tools to enhancing D/s dynamics, I offer collaborative guidance that’s playful, affirming, and tailored to you. We'll begin with a connection session to get to know one another and uncover what turns you on together.
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Companion Sessions & Emotional Confidante
Sometimes, you just need someone who gets it.
I’ve heard just about everything, and I offer warm, non-judgmental space for those seeking connection beyond play. Whether you need to talk through life’s challenges, unpack shame around your desires, or simply share something you can’t tell anyone else—I’m here. These sessions may include coffee, dinner, or time spent together in a safe container for emotional expression. Outings and time are paid for by you.
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Public Torture with Bluetooth Devices
Try not to squirm too obviously. Or do.
One of My absolute favorite scenes: watching you struggle to keep your composure as I torment you in public. With Bluetooth-controlled toys and a sadistic gleam in My eye, I’ll have you twitching in your seat while we sip coffee or stroll through a shop (you’re paying, of course). You’ll be torn between humiliation and arousal, and I’ll be absolutely delighted.
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​Legal Notice: I adhere to California Penal Code section 647(b) and CALCRIM Nos. 1153 to 1155, the services discussed herein do not in any way include or relate to either (1) engagement in any lewd act for money or other consideration, or (2) solicitation, offer, or agreement to engage in any lewd act for money or other consideration.